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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

15.06.2025 17:29

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I said to her

They are buried together, in the same grave..

What was the most inappropriate thing your parent caught you doing as a teen? Was in the bedroom, I thought nobody else was home. My sister and I shared that bedroom but I knew she was gone. I didn’t know my dad was home though.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I have no regrets .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

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But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

So whats the point in blame.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Why have feminists not demanded that females be required to register with the selective service? Are female lives more precious than male lives?

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Especially a lifetime of it.

She was in good health!

Why did we evolve to have so many nerve endings in our anuses?

This is soul school!.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

All the time i was locked up.

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Another so called friend had bit the dust..

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

How much of lounge pianists playing is from repertoire, and how much is improvised?

On the 31st of Jan this month .

(And it was in our own minds.)

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

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We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

She loved him until the end.

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I was scared of men, in general

Was to survive, this bastard.

I was seconnd youngest,

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

My life is so biszare .

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

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And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I was very sick at this time too.

I couldn’t, believe it.

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Who then, do I blame.?

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

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I write beautiful poetry .

She wouldn,t have been !

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

How do atheists explain the fact that when I pray to God, I feel better and I get a feeling of comfort? Doesn’t this prove that a God exists?

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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It was going to be , some day.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

But it wasn’t much.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

As i do to all so called friends.?

We were not on the streets..

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Comes on , in middle age.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I was 9 years of age.

Ive learnt so much.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

She married twice! .

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I will be 64.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

She found it foreign!.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I could never make a relationship work though!

I never cut or harmed myself..

Why did i forgive my father ?

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Where the ultimate outsiders.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

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She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

My family never makes their pension either.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

I waited trembling.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

When she asked me how she looked .

He resisted the act ,that day.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

We all went to grammer schools

I had hoped to write a book about this .

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

What did i know ?

And i lived it daily.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

My mum and dad in the seventies!

I think the readers, may guess!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

One cannot live in the past .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

He knew the spot.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

But, we were locked up after school.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

So, i spoilt her more .

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Would this be the day?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Im still living with it.

I don,t even have a pension.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Put me off passion for life!!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

But ive been too sick for many years..

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.